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  • #31
    I got a problem. I really prefer sexual act than the masturbation. Masturbation is like for the losers who cant get a woman. masturbation is for the sex's slaves. I want to control myself. I want to increase my Qi with Qi Gong exercises but I dont want to avoid ejaculations for ever. That thing in the doc's post like having seminal stones or yellowish sperm thats giving me the creeps lol. And I don't want to stay a monk if i become one someday. I wanna start a family and all. But everytimes I see a girl I like I can't do things with her because this is not correct for me because she's not "THE ONE". It would be a sexual misconduct to go with a girl only for his body. I need a love context. Am I going to have only masturbation for solution until i find the one!? Well, that's my problem. Dont necessary to reply on this. I don't need advices, I think meditation and reflexion is always the better way.

    So what is a good number of times/a week or two weeks... of masturbation to be healthy? The thing for the prostate cancer is recommending more than five times a week. Hehe ;-) No this is too much for me and my Qigong practice. Give me just an indication to dont have seminal stones and yellow sperm.
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    • #32
      that sounds like it should be an 80's soft rock song... "i need a love context"... LOL..... i can even hear the tune in my head....

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      • #33
        beautiful song too..
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        • #34
          Well zachsan, if you don't like "love context", i could use "wait until marriage" or simply one of the buddhism precepts!
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          • #35
            You also said: "It would be a sexual misconduct to go with a girl only for his body."

            Go with a GIRL for HIS body? What kind of girl is this? Yeah, that's a big sexual misconduct. Whoa!

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            • #36
              LOL sorry for this mistake. In french we have to conjugate the object pronoun (his/her) with the thing (body). Sometimes, well, often, I make mistakes like this one.

              It would be a sexual misconduct to go with a girl only for her body. *
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              • #37
                Understandable...

                In spoken Chinese you can't tell a difference in "he, him" or "she, her". It is both "ta" in the first tone. So it's really impossible to make this mistake.

                But if you were studying Chinese and you wrote this sentence in Chinese you could easily make the same mistake. Because the characters are different, even though pronounced exactly the same. You just have to watch the character radical. It shows male or female there.

                Anyway, I just caught that and thought it was funny. But understandable. Don't say sorry.

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                • #38
                  Yeah of course, chinese grammar rocks! There is only the tones that are making me troubles. Well I try to practice everyday ten characters and so more pinyin words. I'm going in china only in two years I have a lot of time to learn.

                  Back to topic:

                  So what is a good number of times/a week or two weeks... of masturbation to be healthy? The thing for the prostate cancer is recommending more than five times a week. Hehe ;-) No this is too much for me and my Qigong practice. Give me just an indication to dont have seminal stones and yellow sperm.
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                  • #39
                    Dude here it is, straight from one of my most recent lectures, because frankly "how much sexual activity is too much" is an entirely relative question.

                    So here we go, the definitive answer to the relative question. If your lower back hurts the morning after, that's too much sex.
                    Show me a man who has forgotten words, so that I can have a word with him.

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                    • #40
                      If your lower back hurts the morning after, your not getting enough training, lol...
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                      • #41
                        My back hurts since 6 months ago, you think it's too much sex than hard training? ;-)
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                        • #42
                          Originally posted by cassius


                          "Man have sex ten times in one night, he die"
                          Maybe from surprise.

                          Mark
                          Karate/Jujutsu at Akron Shaw JCC

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                          • #43
                            If your lower back is sore, and you suffer a dull aching pain, and you can't think of a physical injury that caused it. Its probably from kidney qi deficiency, which is caused by any number of things (one of which can be excessive sexual activity).

                            But the low back and knee pain you get from kidney qi deficiency is very different from the pain you get from tearing muscle and connective tissue in an athletic injury.
                            Show me a man who has forgotten words, so that I can have a word with him.

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                            • #44
                              Preventing nocturnal ejaculation

                              Originally posted by Dr. Lin

                              2. what causes wet dreams n how to stop it cause i really dont want to loose my jing alot , for ur info from teenage time till now i have limited my self for masturbation from 3-4 times a week to now once a week to preserve my jing, so preservation of jing is important for me to stored my chi.
                              Excessive testosterone or sperm will alert the brain to release the internal pressure in the prostate and testicles. Biological action of mimic testosterone or artificial growth hormones (red meat!) on the prostate, pornography, and sexual-associated vision/hearing/physical stimulation will increase wet dreams. Reducing testosterone level in the prostate area will kill wet dream. On the other hand, a weak parasympathetic nervous function in the prostate, which can not help secure (tighten) the prostate ejaculation valve, will result in semen leakage or wet dream too ( how about urinary leakage and wet bed!).
                              How to prevent wet dream from happening? you can reduce it but can not stop it. Powering the parasympathetic nervous function and reducing the sympathetic nervous function in the prostate will naturally reduce wet dream frequency. Eat more nuts, seeds, beans, fruit vegetables and fruits; cut down red meat and cheese consumption; have more exercises and circulate your Chi in your microcosmic orbit - recycle your sexual energy back to your brain. You are normal to have wet dreams 2 or 3 times a week at this age of 20 if you have never masturbated. But, you can reduce it by burning out more testosterone. In fact, if you don't have wet dream and have never masturbated to release yourself, you should worry about your testicular function. For a health young man, you can ejaculate 2 or 3 times to prevent your brain's testosterone negative feedback controller from locking up, unless you are very weak.
                              Ok. So eat more seeds vegetables and fruit, less red meat and cheese is what I get out of this.. I'm not into all these medical terms, maybe someone more conversant can tell me what is said here.

                              Originally posted by daodejing
                              As for what someone said about nocturnal emissions, when I went celibate to help cultivate my qi I had to abstain even in my dreams. At first I was having quite a few sexual dreams, and the only way to avoid nocturnal emission was to literally realize I was dreaming and stop engaging in said activities. Usually at that point I would go off flying, or just wake up. But then lucid dreams are a whole nother can of worms..........
                              What do you mean lucid dreams?
                              Anyway, I usually spend my holidays training, and I have noticed that if I had an ejaculation the night before, me legs are like rubber and my spirit is vapid and lazy.. I can't seem to concentrate for longer periods of time like you have to when practising gongfu.
                              I never masturbate, have sex or in other ways provoke sexual activity. I want to build a strong spirit. So naturally it is in my interest to prevent ejaculations, but in the night it often happens that I have an ejacualtion, which is really annoying because it's usually around 3 o'clock in the morning. That means I have to get up, really tired, take a bath and then sleep for a few more hours before I begin with the morning excersises, totally enervated. Sometimes I have to give up because my legs are all but lifeless.

                              You say you could prevent it by being more aware and wake up when you felt you were about to have an ejaculation. Well, I thought of that myself, tried it and it reduced it.

                              The whole thing started only a year back, when I was 17. In the begining it only happened when I dreamed about naked women. But I had luck in calming my mind down when sleeping, so I only seldom if ever dream about those things these days.
                              But it still didn't go away, and it's not because I can't remember what I dreamed about.. One time, I remember I was driving a car in the countryside, and then I woke up feeling the contents of my prostate being spilled in my trousers....

                              Then I found out that it only happened when I had to pee in the night, and instead of waking me up, my body ejaculated, and THEN woke me up.
                              Ok, so I droughted myself in the evening and made sure to visit the bathroom more than once before bed.
                              That works really well! But it only reduces it. It still happens sometimes.

                              How can I prevent these spontaneous emissions to the best possible?

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                              • #45
                                Hmmmm, I would say to just try to strike those thoughts from your mind or try not to indulge even when you are sleeping.

                                Something that is strange is that meditation sometimes causes me to have wet dreams. I haven't meditated for a month or two and I have very little problems when controlling myself. The only time I get a boner is when I have to pee. I am thinking that psychologically, I think that through meditating, I have successfully controlled myself and need not grip the reigns so tightly, as it were. Then I friggin unload in my sleep. Not a good thing.

                                And as for lucid dreams, it's like a state of sleep where you control your dreams can do just about anything. You can google it for more info, Asger.
                                Becoming what I've dreamed about.

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