It has always been the unwritten code of this website, over the past nine or ten years of its existance, that the only person who would publicly be humiliated here, would be me.
The rule has been broken once, and that had to do with an individual who really went over the line here. For some strange reason, schizophrenia and Australia became a common theme.
Well, here we go again. I've had it, and its time things were brought out. Say goodbye to BL.
Some background. Another unwritten rule that I've lived by, with respect to this website, and my life in general, is that I make myself available to people in need, regardless of the time or situation. This is one reason why I make my personal cell phone numbers available, on a web site. For fellow russbo site members who find themselves traveling in Asia with unexpected problems, I remain a phone call away. It is a very rare moment that someone actually takes advantage of this "service" that I provide, but, I have provided it in the past, and I will continue to provide it in the future. The basic premise behind this, however, and one that is expected to be presumed and followed, is that harassment of me in my personal life is not part of the deal.
Blooming Lotus has stepped over that line.
Initially, phone calls from Australia to find out about my personal life (yes, I have a girlfriend, no, I'm not available) were comical, and politely answered. Phone calls about training with me here were politely refused (I'm doing my own thing at the moment, disgusted with the whole public martial arts scene after the treacherous self centered behavior of Xing Wei last year). Basically, BL called, I answered, tried to be polite, and tried to minimize contact. I certainly didn't expect to put my cell phone number on the web so that I could talk to people about who I was banging that week.
Phone calls turned to SMS messages, initially, a few a day, to sometimes, ten or twenty, absolutely bizarre tidbits of useless incomprehensible information. But, something was starting to become very noticeable, more so than what was found in her usual, and I might add, tolerated posts here on the forum.
She's really losing it.
I'm a tolerant man, probably more so than I should be. I tolerated Xing Wei's bullshit behavior for quite some time, keeping him on board at our school in Vegas long after his and my master, Shi De Cheng, told me to "fire him and send him back to China". Considering all the damage that was done to the school, my personal life, and the lives of, incredibly, all team members around him, who tried to help him, I should have listened. But, no, I try to be tolerant. It's a very Buddhist ideal, for one who's not a very good Buddhist. But, it's my nature. I've tolerated BL's persistent craziness in our forums for well over a year or two, hoping that, with a little guidance and assistance, we might be able to help her.
I give up.
But, before I walk away, let's turn this into an educational experience for all. First, from one of my previous posts, again, about a schizophrenic, again, from Australia (God, please figure that one out for me...), a small educational ditty about schizophrenia (original post , I repeat it here with only the relevant portions):
Disordered thinking. Abnormal changing behavior. Distorted reality. We've seen this before in her posts, but, you haven't seen it like this before....
The early Lotus. With some comprehensible correspondence:
The new Lotus. From the past two weeks. With absolutely no provocation whatsoever:
And, amidst total confusion, a moment of hysterical clarity:
When I first heard from BL, quite a while back, it was via an email. She had written to me, asking for help in her court case, apparently the one in which she was in danger of losing custody of her daughter. She had wanted me, a total stranger, to write a letter for her, which she would have supplied to her Australian court, stating that she was a good mother and a competent individual. Obviously, I ignored her request. And, obviously, it was the beginning of one hell of Disney E ticket roller coaster ride.
The ride has come to an end. Goodbye BL. Go play at some other forum, and don't come back.
The rule has been broken once, and that had to do with an individual who really went over the line here. For some strange reason, schizophrenia and Australia became a common theme.
Well, here we go again. I've had it, and its time things were brought out. Say goodbye to BL.
Some background. Another unwritten rule that I've lived by, with respect to this website, and my life in general, is that I make myself available to people in need, regardless of the time or situation. This is one reason why I make my personal cell phone numbers available, on a web site. For fellow russbo site members who find themselves traveling in Asia with unexpected problems, I remain a phone call away. It is a very rare moment that someone actually takes advantage of this "service" that I provide, but, I have provided it in the past, and I will continue to provide it in the future. The basic premise behind this, however, and one that is expected to be presumed and followed, is that harassment of me in my personal life is not part of the deal.
Blooming Lotus has stepped over that line.
Initially, phone calls from Australia to find out about my personal life (yes, I have a girlfriend, no, I'm not available) were comical, and politely answered. Phone calls about training with me here were politely refused (I'm doing my own thing at the moment, disgusted with the whole public martial arts scene after the treacherous self centered behavior of Xing Wei last year). Basically, BL called, I answered, tried to be polite, and tried to minimize contact. I certainly didn't expect to put my cell phone number on the web so that I could talk to people about who I was banging that week.
Phone calls turned to SMS messages, initially, a few a day, to sometimes, ten or twenty, absolutely bizarre tidbits of useless incomprehensible information. But, something was starting to become very noticeable, more so than what was found in her usual, and I might add, tolerated posts here on the forum.
She's really losing it.
I'm a tolerant man, probably more so than I should be. I tolerated Xing Wei's bullshit behavior for quite some time, keeping him on board at our school in Vegas long after his and my master, Shi De Cheng, told me to "fire him and send him back to China". Considering all the damage that was done to the school, my personal life, and the lives of, incredibly, all team members around him, who tried to help him, I should have listened. But, no, I try to be tolerant. It's a very Buddhist ideal, for one who's not a very good Buddhist. But, it's my nature. I've tolerated BL's persistent craziness in our forums for well over a year or two, hoping that, with a little guidance and assistance, we might be able to help her.
I give up.
But, before I walk away, let's turn this into an educational experience for all. First, from one of my previous posts, again, about a schizophrenic, again, from Australia (God, please figure that one out for me...), a small educational ditty about schizophrenia (original post , I repeat it here with only the relevant portions):
There are many types of schizophrenia. For example, a person whose symptoms are most often colored by feelings of persecution is said to have "paranoid schizophrenia;" a person who is often incoherent but has no delusions is said to have "disorganized schizophrenia." Even more disabling than the delusions and hallucinations are the symptoms of "negative" or "deficit" schizophrenia. Negative or deficit schizophrenia refers to the lack or absence of initiative, motivation, social interest, enjoyment and emotional responsiveness. Because schizophrenia can vary from person to person in intensity, severity and frequency of both psychotic and residual symptoms, many scientists use the word "schizophrenia" to describe a spectrum of illnesses that range from relatively mild to severe.
Distorted Perceptions of Reality
People with schizophrenia may have perceptions of reality that are strikingly different from the reality seen and shared by others around them. Living in a world distorted by hallucinations and delusions, individuals with schizophrenia may feel frightened, anxious, and confused. In part because of the unusual realities they experience, people with schizophrenia may behave very differently at various times. Sometimes they may seem distant, detached, or preoccupied and may even sit as rigidly as a stone, not moving for hours or uttering a sound. Other times they may move about constantly—always occupied, appearing wide-awake, vigilant, and alert.
Delusions
Delusions are false personal beliefs that are not subject to reason or contradictory evidence and are not explained by a person’s usual cultural concepts. Delusions may take on different themes. For example, patients suffering from paranoid-type symptoms—roughly one-third of people with schizophrenia—often have delusions of persecution, or false and irrational beliefs that they are being cheated, harassed, poisoned, or conspired against. These patients may believe that they, or a member of the family or someone close to them, are the focus of this persecution. In addition, delusions of grandeur, in which a person may believe he or she is a famous or important figure, may occur in schizophrenia. Sometimes the delusions experienced by people with schizophrenia are quite bizarre; for instance, believing that a neighbor is controlling their behavior with magnetic waves; that people on television are directing special messages to them; or that their thoughts are being broadcast aloud to others.
Disordered Thinking
Schizophrenia often affects a person’s ability to “think straight.†Thoughts may come and go rapidly; the person may not be able to concentrate on one thought for very long and may be easily distracted, unable to focus attention. People with schizophrenia may not be able to sort out what is relevant and what is not relevant to a situation. The person may be unable to connect thoughts into logical sequences, with thoughts becoming disorganized and fragmented. This lack of logical continuity of thought, termed “thought disorder,†can make conversation very difficult and may contribute to social isolation. If people cannot make sense of what an individual is saying, they are likely to become uncomfortable and tend to leave that person alone.
Normal Versus Abnormal
At times, normal individuals may feel, think, or act in ways that resemble schizophrenia. Normal people may sometimes be unable to “think straight.†They may become extremely anxious, for example, when speaking in front of groups and may feel confused, be unable to pull their thoughts together, and forget what they had intended to say. This is not schizophrenia. At the same time, people with schizophrenia do not always act abnormally. Indeed, some people with the illness can appear completely normal and be perfectly responsible, even while they experience hallucinations or delusions. An individual’s behavior may change over time, becoming bizarre if medication is stopped and returning closer to normal when receiving appropriate treatment.
Distorted Perceptions of Reality
People with schizophrenia may have perceptions of reality that are strikingly different from the reality seen and shared by others around them. Living in a world distorted by hallucinations and delusions, individuals with schizophrenia may feel frightened, anxious, and confused. In part because of the unusual realities they experience, people with schizophrenia may behave very differently at various times. Sometimes they may seem distant, detached, or preoccupied and may even sit as rigidly as a stone, not moving for hours or uttering a sound. Other times they may move about constantly—always occupied, appearing wide-awake, vigilant, and alert.
Delusions
Delusions are false personal beliefs that are not subject to reason or contradictory evidence and are not explained by a person’s usual cultural concepts. Delusions may take on different themes. For example, patients suffering from paranoid-type symptoms—roughly one-third of people with schizophrenia—often have delusions of persecution, or false and irrational beliefs that they are being cheated, harassed, poisoned, or conspired against. These patients may believe that they, or a member of the family or someone close to them, are the focus of this persecution. In addition, delusions of grandeur, in which a person may believe he or she is a famous or important figure, may occur in schizophrenia. Sometimes the delusions experienced by people with schizophrenia are quite bizarre; for instance, believing that a neighbor is controlling their behavior with magnetic waves; that people on television are directing special messages to them; or that their thoughts are being broadcast aloud to others.
Disordered Thinking
Schizophrenia often affects a person’s ability to “think straight.†Thoughts may come and go rapidly; the person may not be able to concentrate on one thought for very long and may be easily distracted, unable to focus attention. People with schizophrenia may not be able to sort out what is relevant and what is not relevant to a situation. The person may be unable to connect thoughts into logical sequences, with thoughts becoming disorganized and fragmented. This lack of logical continuity of thought, termed “thought disorder,†can make conversation very difficult and may contribute to social isolation. If people cannot make sense of what an individual is saying, they are likely to become uncomfortable and tend to leave that person alone.
Normal Versus Abnormal
At times, normal individuals may feel, think, or act in ways that resemble schizophrenia. Normal people may sometimes be unable to “think straight.†They may become extremely anxious, for example, when speaking in front of groups and may feel confused, be unable to pull their thoughts together, and forget what they had intended to say. This is not schizophrenia. At the same time, people with schizophrenia do not always act abnormally. Indeed, some people with the illness can appear completely normal and be perfectly responsible, even while they experience hallucinations or delusions. An individual’s behavior may change over time, becoming bizarre if medication is stopped and returning closer to normal when receiving appropriate treatment.
The early Lotus. With some comprehensible correspondence:
Look Rich,
I don't particulatly give a shit enough to not be able to get over it soon re : the forum ' or 'alot the kids and wackos on it alot of the time ( considering their love declarations and personal natured pm councelling requests i do my delicate professional best to help them with (rolleyes) ) .
$10 000 is likely not much to you and the business I'd bring nor my experience I stand to gain from giving you the business something likely less important again. Is it going to be available or isn't it Doc???
Let me out of your dungeon and enable my posting ability , or just bann me and I'll know that neither me nor my $$ nor presence is welcome there. Wtf is this, suck up or don't come BS anyway????!!! You know I dig you, help when I can and I couldn't suck up if I tried!
Glad Stylees comming anyway for something postive god bless his sheltered heart.
cheers
Blooming Lotus
I don't particulatly give a shit enough to not be able to get over it soon re : the forum ' or 'alot the kids and wackos on it alot of the time ( considering their love declarations and personal natured pm councelling requests i do my delicate professional best to help them with (rolleyes) ) .
$10 000 is likely not much to you and the business I'd bring nor my experience I stand to gain from giving you the business something likely less important again. Is it going to be available or isn't it Doc???
Let me out of your dungeon and enable my posting ability , or just bann me and I'll know that neither me nor my $$ nor presence is welcome there. Wtf is this, suck up or don't come BS anyway????!!! You know I dig you, help when I can and I couldn't suck up if I tried!
Glad Stylees comming anyway for something postive god bless his sheltered heart.
cheers
Blooming Lotus
ept . .i dont really eat bread or usually have any . .so it may be rice crackers and peas and corn. . With a choice of condiments and juice . .or flavoured no fat milk ya crazy americans. . And if i workout . .it proly wont b til 8. . Thank u boy thankya. .. really. Someone get chu your cooch...!. . :/. l~). ...
,remember luv and remember buddah Richard. .in that instant it counts. .ur familia and the path ll b straighta. .think nuclear instant. .mwa. Mwa. And take care. Mwa to steve 2. .unglorified freak. !. . .and buddah laughs @). . . Anyway boys. . I promise okay . .mwwa 4 riding that out 4 me. . And u selves and 4 holding ur breath 4 it. 4 breakfast i maay want egg white omlette . .made on nofat milk. .cookd in the micro wave. . On wholemeal..exc
@). yU stop it . cos i ont think so. .and i dont think u think so. Look at the depression before the wars that proceded the birth of the dollar. . the economy is trying to balance itself again 4 luv having been in buddahs hands to promote at a time when the ppl had forgotten such things , jesus walks the earth too if u believe that . .the world looks like its saved itself again. . Except the war that comes first and the race to give everyone a
As 4 the last message and the calliber of men iim talking about. . Im not even sure yuur going to turn out to be it yourself let alone any of these men ur imagining i want . .But while u still working on it. .i guess im still prepared to find out. I just dont think u quite understand.. n thats why when i met u the only competition was overseas.Easy and low maintenance i not. So u gotta b ready ta keep up...Or i guess u just not..I think maybe u r
Yap. . What selective disonance @).. And What big hard what exactly ur keeping to urselves out there ?. . Oh thats right. . form. Any way im sorry You were right. I sleep with every single last cheap n dirty one of these men i wanna from minute to minute. . And i dont really read or listen to what u men ve been saying neither. . . Ajust . . like the way yas get so tightly inside o me. . and . . I really do need to know . . If it can
till hurt like . . abig rampaging bull was keeping off an on company driving in my . . .
Shiney red . . . iculous perspective. . I should leave the reading to someone else iguess. . awonder if u still good in bed if u get parkinsons??. . I think i forget. . Oh . .there it is. Yay. . **** me! .before ya forget Richard. . Or remember that chya might ve had other more pleasurable things to take care of. . Doesnt matter that u bad . . As long as u have fun forgetting. . Im glad ur girlfriend is there 4 u . . And Steve. After what
Ur tantric meditation is appreciated .. .mwa. . . :/. .
And, amidst total confusion, a moment of hysterical clarity:
Lol. .you're rich and beautiful aand intelligent fuking girls 2 yrs older than my daughter believe yourself a part time buddhist and Iim going to b embarrassd??. .i dont reeally do embarrassd and theres probably not much that would do that to me. . It ll b interesting to see what you come up with.. Behind you 100%. . Remember the questions you were asking about wwomen a couple of yrs back??. . Well so do i babe. .and so does everyone else goin
The ride has come to an end. Goodbye BL. Go play at some other forum, and don't come back.
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