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  1. #11
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    May 2005
    Is it the oil in the ground that threw the bomb??? No, it's the ruthless moneymaking company that has the means to get away with this because they make so much money by slling the oil.
    Alright that's pretty much what I was trying to say when I said that:

    We are the ****ing infection that destroys whatever it touches. THe important is not the concepts, it's the facts
    But hey it doesn't matter.

    I find that my twisted answer actually helped me to get a much more comprehsensible answer from you, and I can see what you meant much better now. It's just the way you wrote it at first that got me confused regarding where you were standing. I now understand that if one of your clients really wanna get laid you'll help him find the right person, so that at least it doesn't encourage the really vasty local mafias, and that's a rare thing...That's cool.

    About Malaysia, they may be whores hidden a bit everywhere (i've never been to Borneo), but it obviously is not the reputation of the country. A sex tourist would rather choose Holland, Thailand and cie...But it doesn't mean there is not whoring at all, but the proportions are just not that high...Furthermore, I'd be really careful because if caught with one over there by the religious (the ones you can't bribe) you could end up in serious trouble (including 20 slashes with a whip on your back or worst).

    Sarcasm always has a nice ring to it, doesn't it. But this was not the right time to use it.
    The fact that you cut and paste it like this says more about you than it does about the travel organisation.
    Well it's true that I could do something like:

    I am a nice guy and a hate assholes!

    I am a asshole and I hate nice guy
    That wouldn't be very nice innit. But I just like to be offensive in my arguments so the discussion is not only a "yes I agree" or "no I disagree"...Just to get people started, whether it annoys them or not. And I'm happy because it allowed you to give more details on what you do. A nice argument is a dull argument innit?

    Free whoring
    I meant "pimp free whoring"

    So let me ask you this. Is a whore evil? No, it's just that a lot of people want to turn them into moneymaking machines. You as a person can choose to participate in this or not.
    I just pity these girls, just read Baiwanxi story, she is being used as a **** doll 5 times a day at 19, and her future is next to screwed...I still see them as victims more as initiators. However I understand they are some nyphomaniac around who do that for fun, or who just really love doing it...I just say that's a relatively small percentage of them.

    I did some volunteer work with child refugees who end up in prostitution. Horrible stories, makes your heart bleed and yet some of them, once they turn 18 and have been provided with a flat and a job, reuturn to their pimps because according to them it`s less work than 9 to 5.
    That's what they'd say, but we're not in their souls. I just think that after years of childhood prostitution they just can't be "Mr normal" that easily.


    Flow, you sound like your pretty much against prostitution in any form
    Yea I am against it, I can't help but to think it's wrong. I just feel bad for these girls, sometimes if I see one in the street I'm like what if it was your mom or your sister, or your child...I just coudn't accept it as normal, cool, it's ok, that's how it works.

    That's all I can say, as men we have needs, getting laid is number 4 (after Drink Seat Sleep). What you do is waht you do and I certainly wouldn't juge you on that, and at least you have the balls to talk about it. I respect you for that.


    I do medical missions in the Philippines. I send money to families in the Philippines and Thailand. I create jobs with my school here to help other Thai families. I support the local police financially. I make no money on any of these ventures myself.

    But, for whatever I do here and there, it doesn't make a dent in the whole problem. The issue is too large. The people here get by doing what they think they can do best. And whoring, though we westerners really look down upon it, is accepted behavior here. No one besmirches any young woman for doing it. IN fact, in the Philippines, families send their daughters to some of these whorehouses to make money for the rest of them.
    You do more than anyone for these people, don't forget that if you helped one person even tiny bit only you still made a big difference. One person IS a big difference. Two is huge and three is enormous.

    Call me an Idealist, but you see, I don't go to Church, I don't follow any religious shit, I might be the greates sinner of all times, but I am still a Christian. Not the good Samaritan, not "Mr perfect", not "Mr blame you", just plainly accepting that living ina ****ed up world does not leave place for pessimism, when you have nothing else that a bit af air in your lungs for a couple of years...
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  2. #12
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    Sep 2006
    Yeah, I definitely put myself out there to be judged. And if people do, that's fine. I try my best not to judge others, but I am human and still find myself doing it from time to time. It would be easy to look at myself and think of me as a perverted American getting his jollies in China if I didn't participate in the loving up of a whore. So I can understand.

    The difference with me and many others that may "participate" is that I like to talk to the girls. I truley don't see them as less than human for what they do. I like them to know that. That's how I came across this girls story.

    Again, I would much prefer to have a girlfriend here, and in fact I'm currently working on that. But I don't. I also don't have many friends here. And female interaction is something I miss horribly. I get that, to an extent, when I pay for it.
    I'm not trying to justify why I do it, just putting myself out there so you all can see what's going on in my head.

    But now we're a bit off of the subject, so let me bring it back home. I have yet to see any 12 year old, 14 year old, or 16 year old whores here, as I've heard Thailand has the're share. And that's just plain wrong in my book !!! That grown men, 30, 40, 50's would go to Thailand just to get a 12 year old,,,,, now that's some sick shit !

    But who am I to judge. ha
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  3. #13
    Quote Originally Posted by baiwanxi
    Y have yet to see any 12 year old, 14 year old, or 16 year old whores here, as I've heard Thailand has the're share.
    I have yet to see an underage girl in any of these "bars" that are prevalent in some areas of Phuket, Bangkok, etc. If that sort of shit is going on, it must be well hidden. And from what I understand, the police here are really on the lookout for that crap.

    Doesn't mean it doesn't happen. It's just not "visible". But, who am I to judge, I don't go looking for it.
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  4. #14
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    Sep 2006
    Interesting. I had heard, ever since I knew what a prostitute was, that that was going on in Thailand. Nice to know that, even if it is, it's not "accepted" like I was under the impression it was. Of course, I only heard from friends who hadn't been there either so...........
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  5. #15
    It must have been around five years ago. maybe more.

    It was just another boring night in Las Vegas. So, I and a few of my friends did what we occasionally did on those just another boring nights in Las Vegas. We went to church. Pay some homage to the princesses.

    Vegas has tons of strip clubs, and even more young ladies who are willing to bare most of it for a few bucks. It's entertaining not in a visual sort of way, as most people would imagine, but more in an interactive sort of way. What comes out of the mouthes of princesses on any given night can range from utterly bizzare to absolutely comical.

    She came plodding out of nowhere. I just had not seen her coming. Some young thing, who later claimed to have been 19 (this was back in the times when in certain areas of Vegas, you had to be 18 to work in these clubs). She had the usual and commonly accepted tight fluorescent scanty thing on, which made her stick out amongst the hundred or so other young scantily clad pretty young things running around. Can't really remember her face, or most anything else about her, other than her approach.

    The usual approach.

    "Wanna dance?" They lunge into your lap, curl up close to your chest, and reliably say those famous two words.

    To me, she looked like she was 16. Looked far too young to be in a place like that. I was a bit astonished, not only at her young appearance, but at the speed and secrecy she had used to capture my lap without my knowing, or being able to prepare for it.

    "Wanna dance?" The limits of her vocabulary were astonishing. "Huh? Wanna?"

    I was so surprised, that my usual ability to return superlative conversation with even more superlative conversation, was stunted. I resorted to just a simple, honest, straightforward response. The only thing that could have been uttered, given those circumstances.

    "Does your mommy know that you're working here?"

    And, without blinking an eye, I got a simple, honest, straightforward response back.

    "She's right over there, do you want to ask her?"

    Mom, in her late thirties, was stripping, and competing for cash, with the younger girls. Including her daughter.

    So, I'll step up to the plate and throw a curveball into this conversation.

    I'll suggest that some women LIKE being whores.
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  6. #16
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    Sep 2006
    And then my walls came crashing down.

    I've always liked the thought that by being nice and treating my "girls" with a bit of respect that they might normaly be used to that I'm playing the "captin save a ho" card. (god I love that line) But I've always liked to tell myself that these girls, ALL of these girls have had some f**ked up situation that put them where they are.

    I'm not sure why. I guess it feels dirty to sleep with a girl who gets down with numerous guys every day and does it not because she has to, but because she likes it.

    Girls, girls, girls, girls.

    Man I'm a sucker....... A sucker with a weak will....
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  7. #17
    LOL. Sorry man. They're not ALL like that. Just some.

    Here's the picture of the porn star who gave the trooper a bj to get out of a ticket.

    Tell me she doesn't like what she does... LOL
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  8. #18

    Barbie Cummings

    The porn star's name is Barbie Cummings, she must have really wanted to get out of that ticket, because the cop is not even her type. 3 of the last movies she did are named, "Black Guys in White Thighs #2" , "Big Black Cock Addiction #3" and "Interracial Sperm Swallowing #2". So the cop who got his rod polished was pretty lucky for being a chubby white good ole boy and should not have bragged about the porn star to his cop friends, he might have gotten away with it.
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  9. #19
    An interesting article from MSNBC, that possibly reflects a new trend:

    Sex peddled as power in pornified girl culture
    Does the trend build confidence in young women — or diminish it?

    CHICAGO - Porn used to be relegated to a video hidden in the bottom drawer, or a magazine under the mattress. Today,

    it’s part of everyday life.

    Hugh Hefner’s girlfriends have become TV’s “girls next door.” Porn stars have MySpace pages and do voiceovers for video games. And while “porn on demand” is standard for hotel TVs and upgraded cable packages, it’s even easier to find it with a few clicks on the computer.

    In April, more than a third of the U.S. Internet audience visited sites that fit into the online “adult” category, according to comScore Media Metrix. So the message is clear: In today’s world, sex doesn’t just sell. The pervasiveness of porn has made sexiness — from subtle to raunchy — a much-sought-after attribute online, at school and even at work.

    Many agree that the trend has had a particularly strong influence on young women — in some cases, taking shape as an unapologetic embracing of sexuality and exhibitionism. “I am one of those girls,” says Holly Eglinton, a 31-year-old Canadian who recently won a talent search competition to appear as an unclothed newscaster on the Internet’s “Naked News.” She auditioned after meeting a producer for the show on a social networking site where she’s posted provocative photos of herself — an increasingly common practice.

    For Eglinton, taking off her clothes for an Internet audience was freeing, fun and a little rebellious. “It’s something that sort of suits my personality,” she says. “I’m kind of an extrovert and a bit of a camera hog, a poser.”

    While celebrities wearing sexed-up outfits isn't necessarily new, some experts say they're now the norm rather than the exception. It’s a prevalent sentiment in our look-at-me culture. But many wonder if it really is empowering, especially for younger women and girls who try to emulate what’s already on the Web.

    Too often, educators and health professionals say, the results are cases of “Girls Gone Wild” — gone wild.

    Michael Simon, a therapist and high school counselor in the San Francisco Bay area, has seen an increasing number of girls and young women in his private practice after episodes in which they undressed or masturbated in front of a Web cam for people they met online. “Instead of pornography or performative sexuality being one choice among many ways of being sexual, it’s essentially become the standard of sexiness,” says Simon. “It’s also the standard by which a man or woman is a prude, depending on how much they embrace that kind of sexuality.”

    Yvonne K. Fulbright, a sexologist and author who co-hosts the “Sex Files” program on Sirius satellite radio, also has seen the shift in attitude. She’s posted messages on Craigslist looking for people who want to comment on various topics for the show — and, instead, often receives responses from young women who send descriptions of their breast and waist sizes.

    “They’re under the impression that they can be the next big thing,” Fulbright says. “Unfortunately, for a lot of females that means taking off your clothes and being sexual. “It’s a really warped sense of what it means to be sexy.”

    Indeed, there was a time when dancing for the masses in barely there outfits was the realm of music video stars and strippers. Then the Internet and reality TV came along, providing new platforms for young women to flaunt it for a shot at fame. In one hit prime-time series, for instance, eager young contestants perform soft-core porn dance routines in hopes of becoming the next member of The *****cat Dolls singing group.

    The fascination with being “hot” also has made its way into the workplace, where confidence is often conveyed in the way one looks and dresses. “I would say that, in the world of Washington, D.C., power brokers, it’s important to be sexy, but in a more sophisticated, muted way,” says Charles Small, a 25-year-old young professional who works in the nation’s capital. That’s in contrast, he says, to cities such as Los Angeles and Miami, “where overt sexiness is more the status quo.”

    Some employers — taken aback by the trend — have responded by setting tougher dress codes. Many school administrators have done the same. “As a high school teacher, I see 14-year-old girls dressing in a way that makes me shake my head. Where do they get that?” asks Dennis Brown, an educator and parent in Huntley, Ill., outside Chicago. Recently, he says his own 5-year-old daughter proclaimed, “Daddy, I look fat.”

    “And I thought, ‘Oh my gosh, here we go,”’ he says. “Now I have to start deconstructing that mind-set.”

    It’s a big topic of discussion among researchers. A 2007 report from the American Psychological Association compiled the findings of myriad studies, showing that the sexualization of young women and girls, in particular, can hurt them in many ways. Problems can include anything from low self-esteem and eating disorders to depression and anxiety.

    Simon, the California therapist, has seen those symptoms in several of his young female patients. While boys tend to seek out porn for their own sexual pleasure, he sees a sexual disconnect with girls who exhibit provocative behavior they’re not ready for — from undressing online to performing oral sex on boys. “It doesn’t have anything to do with their sexual pleasure,” says Simon. “It has to do with pleasing somebody else — the grasping for attention. “As a parent, it makes me want to cry.”

    And while they tell him they feel empowered, too often, he says they end up getting pegged as “sluts.”

    Julie Albright, a sociologist at the University of Southern California, has noted that dynamic in her research. She’s working on a book about “players,” men who juggle more than one sex partner and earn a title of esteem for behavior that much of society still frowns upon for women. “If you ‘act like a man,’ in that sense, you’re trying to grab hold of that same kind of power, that same kind of lifestyle — and claim male privilege,” Albright says. “The problem is, you’re still female and it’s still a man’s world.”

    Anna Stanley, a 25-year-old in Madison, Wis., knows all about that double standard. She also wonders if she and her peers place too much importance on the power of sexiness. “It seems like it stems out of the ‘Girl Power’ thing of the ‘90s gone awry — men objectify us, so let’s objectify ourselves and get something out of it. It’s not really progress,” she says. “But it’s something I have mixed feelings about — because sometimes I do it, too. “Sometimes you do dress up to get noticed and attention, and you do feel more confident when you do that.” She wishes there was more focus on helping women develop a healthy sense of their own sexuality.

    Missy Suicide — founder of the “Suicide Girls” pinup Web site — couldn’t agree more. “I think that women shouldn’t be afraid of their sexuality. It’s a part of who we are. You shouldn’t be embarrassed and ashamed of your body and yourself,” says the 29-year-old entrepreneur, who lives in Los Angeles. But, she says, it shouldn’t be the sole focus.

    She and the women on her site are known for challenging the stereotypes of beauty, with their tattoos and piercings and varying body types. “I get messages from girls all the time saying they never felt beautiful before because they never saw girls like themselves in magazines or on TV. Then they saw a girl like them on ‘Suicide Girls,”’ she says of the site, an online community that attracts a worldwide audience of both admirers and women who want to become nude pinups.

    Victoria Sinclair, the lead anchor on “Naked News,” also sees herself as a role model. She left a job in the corporate world to join the show as lead anchor in 1999 — and never looked back. “Sometimes, there are moments when I think, ‘Oh my goodness what am I doing?”’ says Sinclair, who recently turned 40. “But I’m really OK with it.” She says it works for her because she has control over what she does on the show and has been allowed to age gracefully, without plastic surgery.

    Still, many skeptics remain.

    “To be sure, it can make you feel powerful to know that you are arousing strong feelings in other people, that you have their attention and admiration,” says Eileen Zurbriggen, a psychologist at the University of California, Santa Cruz, who helped compile the APA report.

    “This is the same sense of power experienced by charismatic rock stars and politicians. But politicians also wield other kinds of power. They can make actual changes to the legal, economic, and geopolitical landscapes — changes that have far-ranging impacts.

    “Women,” she says, “might be better off developing other sources of power.”
    "She left a job in the corporate world to join the show as lead anchor in 1999 — and never looked back." She was a secretary.
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  10. #20
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